Friday, September 27, 2013

three years old!

August 2, 2013


42 pounds (99th percentile)
40 inches tall (91st percentile)

Dearest Carson,

It’s difficult to find the words to express just how much I love you, my sweet boy. I am so very thankful that I get to live life with you. You are an absolute joy. Watching you grow and learn is such an honor. In some ways, it’s hard to believe you’re already three, but in other ways you seem much older and it’s hard to remember my life without you.

This year has been extra special because I’ve gotten to see you become a big brother! Not long after your second birthday, we found out I was pregnant and Daddy and I decided to tell you right away. We knew it was a lot for you to process and would be a long time to wait, but you did great! You watched my belly grow as Charlie grew inside me and loved to talk to him, sing to him, and give him kisses before he was even born. You were patient with me while I was pregnant, sleepy, and unable to carry you. You went with us to my doctor’s appointments and loved getting to hear your baby brother’s heart beat.

My very favorite moment of being a mama so far is seeing you and Charlie meet for the first time. I will never forget the excitement and love in your eyes as you came into the room and crawled into the bed with me to see your brand new baby brother. You talked, sang, and kissed just as sweetly as you had when he was still inside of me and over the next few weeks you kept saying, “Mama, can you believe Charlie is really here?!” Since then, you’ve continued to show him love, care, and patience. I am so thankful Charlie gets to learn from you!

I love to hear your sweet voice call for me in the mornings. “Mama, I’m awake!” What a joy it is to be greeted with such love each day! Some days, we snuggle for a little while when you wake up, and other days you’re ready to play. You like to know what day it is, and have been working to better understand time, so several months ago we put a calendar in your room, and you’ve enjoyed learning with it in the mornings. You can sing both the days of the week and months of the year. A couple months after that, we added a United States map. You’ve really enjoyed learning where various states are on the map. You can already locate and name 12 different states.

Your favorite toys are Fisher Price Little People and plastic animals. You use your imagination and play for hours with them. You also like to build with blocks and legos. You’ve started watching TV some and your favorite shows are Little Bear and Clifford. We still love reading books together, especially snuggling and reading one after another. You also like to play and explore outside. Rocks and sticks are some of your favorite toys. You like to call your grandparents on Facetime. You love your stuffed animals. Sometimes you try to put all thirty in bed with you at once, but you normally sleep with about 10 each night. You especially love Tiny, Teddy, and Pooh.

You don’t always nap anymore. Some days you will nap for three hours and other days, not at all, but you always stay in bed and rest for at least an hour and play with your stuffed animals and sing.

One of the highlights of our year was potty training! Just two months after your second birthday you started using the potty and wearing big boy underwear during the day. It’s been challenging at times, but you’re doing really well! You are 42 pounds and 40 inches tall. You wear size 4T-5T shirts and 3T-4T pants.

Daily tasks are fun with you. You help me with cleaning, laundry, trash, and mail, but our favorite task is cooking. I love spending time with you in the kitchen and teaching you as we prepare dinner and make yummy breads and cookies. One of your favorite parts of cooking is sharing with friends and neighbors. Your loving and generous spirit challenges me almost every day.

You really like to go out and about and I enjoy running errands with you. We go to the post office, Kroger, Sam’s, Target, and Hobby Lobby. You help me find the things on our list and we enjoy chatting while we shop. We also go fun places like library story time and the park together. We’ve made sweet friends this year so sometimes we invite them over or meet them at the park, library, and Chick-Fil-A. At least once a week during the day we spend time with Shannon, Laura Beth, and Caroline; Kristen, Colin, and Owen; or Keely and Addison. In the evenings or on the weekends, we have lots of fun with Brian, Kathy, Graeme, and Miles.

You love people and are thoughtful and compassionate beyond your years. You’re outgoing and friendly and remember everyone you meet. You have friends of all ages including our neighbors and church family. You love going to church to see people you love and sing. Singing, oh how you can sing, my sweet boy. You’re almost always singing! It is such a joy to both listen to you sing softly as you play and to see you grab anything you can find to use as a microphone and sing loudly and with great passion. You still love Thank You Lord and The Doxology, but a new favorite this year is 10,000 Reasons. You love to sing at church and at Southland, the nursing home we visit once a month, and you’ve even gotten to help lead songs a couple of times. Your worship is not only a blessing to God, but also to everyone around you.

As is our tradition, you woke up to balloons in your room on your birthday and we had pancakes for breakfast. You also got to open gifts and go to Loco FroYo. We made chocolate cake and shared it with friends at church. I had a lot of fun planning your birthday party with you! It was fun to share ideas and see you get excited. We ended up finding inspiration from one of your favorite books and had a bear hunt party. Everyone brought their teddy bear to hunt and we ate milk and cookies. A lot of friends came to celebrate with you.

Carson, I pray that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ-to the glory and praise of God!

Thank you for being my boy! I love you so much.

Mama 

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