Thursday, October 28, 2010

aunts

In addition to four wonderful grandparents, Carson also has two fabulous aunts!!! Aunt Misty and Aunt Laura both love Carson so much!! We are thankful for two sweet, thoughtful, loving aunts!!! We know Carson will have lots and lots of fun with both of them through the years!!! Thanks, Misty and Laura for loving our boy!!!! We love you both!


Tuesday, October 19, 2010

grandparents

Carson is so very blessed to have four wonderful grandparents. Pops, Granny, Bobel, and Reenie love Carson so much! They are loving, gentle, thoughtful, generous, kind, considerate, caring, interested, wise, helpful, playful, fun, cozy, snuggly, and encouraging! We are so thankful that our parents love us and our baby boy so much!

Monday, October 11, 2010

two months

october 2, 2010

12 pounds 9 ounces (59%)

24 ¼ inches (82%)

head circumference (41%)

This month you’ve continued to grow and change. You still nurse eight times per day. You love to eat! You only get up once during the night now, so I am beginning to get more sleep! We still swaddle you while you sleep. During the day, we talk, read books, and sing songs. You like for the person holding you to walk around and prefer to be held on the shoulder. Sometimes you’re gassy and it hurts your tummy. When you’re upset, you like to go outside and listen to bugs, birds, the breeze, and lawnmowers. You enjoy swinging with me on the porch swing, too. You are so much more alert and aware of your surroundings. You now really enjoy having your diaper changed, and in fact, your changing table is one of your favorite places to be. It’s a good place to get a smile from you! You get to sit in your bathtub now, which makes baths a lot more fun. You like the lotion massage afterwards, too. You are really beginning to enjoy your floor gym and bouncy chair. We keep both of them in the kitchen and you play in them while I pump, cook, and clean. You’re getting better at tummy time, and you really seem to want to roll over on your own. One of your favorite things to do is lay under your turtle mobile and watch them move and sing. You’ve started making more noises. We love to hear you “talk” and coo! Your legs are getting strong, and you like to stand up while we’re holding you sometimes. You aren’t interested in a pacifier, but you’ve started chewing on your hands quite a bit. At first your mouth was really dry, but now you’ve got some slobber. You’re still wearing size one diapers and 0-3 clothes. You took your first bottle of pumped milk on September 3. Sometimes you eat from a bottle while we’re at church or out running errands. You like being at church and don’t mind being passed around from one person to another. Our church family loves you!

During your first month, you’d only gone to church and the doctor, but your second month of life was quite eventful!

On September 3, you went out to eat for the first time. Daddy and I had a double date with you and Kaye. We went to San Antonio Grill and then to Kaye’s house. You and “Aunt” Kaye are good buddies.

On September 8, at five weeks and two days, you SMILED!!!! It was a great big open-mouthed, dimple-producing smile, and I loved it! I knew it was more than just gas relief, because it was big, it was in response to me, and your eyes smiled, too! It was a special moment I will always treasure! Since then, you’ve smiled more and more, and we love it every time!

On September 9, you went to your first sporting event. We went to the high school volleyball game with Kaye and Kayce. Kayce is a high school girl at church who is so sweet with you.

On September 13, your six week birthday, you had your first plane ride! You and I flew to Texas without Daddy, so I was pretty nervous, but you did a fabulous job! You were happy and content. You slept in the moby wrap while I went through security and walked through the airports in Nashville and Dallas. The other people on the plane were nice and helpful. One man befriended us and gave you a gold dollar as a souvenir to remember your first plane ride. The plane ride must have worn you out, because you slept through the night for the first three nights we were there!

We enjoyed relaxing with Granny and Pops for several days. You’d grown a lot since they’d seen you. They loved snuggling, playing, and taking lots of pictures of you! Aunt Misty came to their house every evening after work to spend time with us, too. We went to my old school in Roby and introduced you to friends there, and we went to Maryneal so you could meet Mama and Daddy’s sweet church family there. Several cousins and friends came to Granny and Pop’s house to meet you!

Then, Daddy joined us, and we went to Abilene and stayed with Aunt Misty during ACU’s Summit. While we were there, we spent time with Aunt Laura and Abilene friends. We went to Bonham and you met the teachers I used to work with. We enjoyed showing you the town, home, and college that are special to us! We drove home and stopped in Fort Worth and Dallas to visit with and introduce you to some very good friends. Then, before heading home, we stopped in Memphis so you could meet your great-grandmother, Mam-ma. It was a busy, but fun two weeks.

On your two month birthday, we went to Jackson to meet up with Bobel and Reenie for a few hours. They were surprised how much you’d grown and loved snuggling and playing with you! We enjoyed visiting with them about their new home in Saint Louis.

Carson, you have made life so much more fun! Your daddy and I continue loving you more each day. It is an absolute joy to watch you grow and learn!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

one month

september 2, 2010

10 pounds 4 ounces (60%)

22 ½ inches (70%)

head circumference (50%)

During your first month, you enjoyed time with all four grandparents and both aunts. You also met lots of your church family. You loved snuggling with all of your new friends! You did not like to have your diaper changed and kicked your legs the whole time! You did not like your sponge bath, either, but you always seemed to feel refreshed afterwards, so it was a good time for mommy to take lots of pictures! Your circumcision healed at two weeks, and your cord fell off at three weeks. You went to church for the first time on the day before your three week birthday, and you did a great job! You slept through most of worship, but you were wide awake and met lots more people at the church potluck. Everyone thought you were adorable! Just before your one month birthday, you moved from newborn to size one diapers and from newborn to 0-3 clothes. You were already growing! You were staying awake more and more and were able to focus your eyes on people and objects more all the time. You loved to look at bright lights! You have a strong neck and you liked to hold your head up, even early on. We got into an eat/wake/sleep rhythm. After a couple of weeks of sleeping in your pack ‘n play in mama and daddy’s room, you started sleeping in your own room. We always swaddled you in your swaddle me blanket and it seemed to help you sleep. You ate about eight times per day. We were getting better and better at nursing. You’re a good eater, and I love spending that special time with you. Your daddy and I love to snuggle with you! We love you so much, sweet Carson, and we’re so very thankful that God blessed us with you. It is a joy to be your parents!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Carson's birth story

Sunday, August 1

We had dinner with all four of our parents and both of our sisters! What a treat it was to spend one last evening together with our family of eight, all anxiously awaiting the miracle the next day would bring! Knowing it would be a while until I would be able to eat again, and since it was my last guilt-free pregnancy meal;), Mama cooked my favorite meal, homemade chicken strips, and they were yummy! We all had a wonderful time visiting! As the night went on, I got really silly and excited about meeting my sweet son the next day! Finally everyone convinced me to calm down and try and get some rest for a couple of hours before it was time to get up and head to the hospital.

Monday, August 2

3:00 am We woke up, showered, loaded the car with way too much stuff, and headed to Columbia

4:00 am I had good conversation with my sweet husband! Our hearts were full of so many emotions!

5:00 am We checked in at the hospital, too bad I didn’t get a picture of Keith carrying all of our stuff and me and my big belly waddling in beside him! What a sight we must have been! We settled into our labor and delivery room, and they made Keith go to the waiting room while I answered questions and got hooked up to an IV.

6:00 am I was still only dilated to a one, but I was fully effaced. Dr. Pelletier came in and broke my water and they started my potocin to induce labor. Breaking the water was painful, but only for a second. Lots of water poured out!

7:00 am-10 am Keith and I enjoyed visiting. He read me encouraging texts and facebook notes throughout the morning. Our sweet families were in the waiting room and took turns coming in the room to say hello. Each time I got up and went to the restroom, more water flowed onto the floor! I was feeling contractions, but they were bearable.

11:00 am The contractions intensified. After experiencing some of the pain, I decided to request the epidural, and it was a good thing I did, because just before they gave it to me, I was dilated up to a six. The anesthesiologist was very nice and informative. The injection hurt, but only for a moment, and that tiny pain was worth it, because I could no longer feel the contractions!! Very nice! During the injection, Keith got a little bit woozy, and realized it was time for him to get something on his stomach, so his dad brought him a burger and fries from McDonalds, and he felt better.

11:30 am The dilation increased to nine centimeters soon after the epidural. Our parents and sisters came in for a quick hello and hug before it was time to push!

12:00 pm It was time to push! Keith and the nurses were really sweet and encouraging. Pushing was intense. I can only imagine what it would have been like without the epidural.

12:30 pm It wasn’t long until they started telling me that they could see a head full of dark hair!! Wow!!! This was really happening! How crazy and exciting! I continued to push as Keith and the nurses continued to encourage and coach me through it. After about an hour of pushing, I heard the nurses whispering to each other that the baby was not going to fit and that it was time to call in the doctor.

1:15 pm Dr. Pelletier arrived and did an episiotomy so that Carson could fit! With one more big push, I felt a blub blub, and there he was!!!!

1:43 pm My baby boy was born!! Wow!!!!! I cannot put into words how amazing it was to see him! Keith cut the umbilical cord. Dr. Pelletier was trying to lay Carson on my chest, but Carson grabbed the tie on his surgical robe and would not let go! Finally, Dr. Pelletier just cut the tie and laid him on me!! Wow, wow, wow!!! It was the most amazing miracle I’ve ever experienced!

2:00 pm After a couple of minutes, the nursery nurse got Carson cleaned up and weighed. Keith took lots of pictures of our sweet baby while Dr. Pelletier got me all stitched up. Keith was so sweet and excited. Carson weighed in at 8 pounds 11.8 ounces, and he was 21 inches long! Keith got to hold Carson for a few minutes and then handed him back to me. What a special time it was for our family of three. After a few minutes together, Carson’s sweet grandparents and aunts came in to celebrate with us! They were all so happy, too! Kaye and Lloyd were in the waiting room, and they came in to see us next! When everyone left, I was able to nurse Carson for the first time! It was such a sweet moment that I’ll never forget.

3:00 pm They took Carson to the nursery for his bath and shots, while Keith and I were moved to another room. Our parents and sisters had fun watching everything through the nursery windows. Keith and I had a chance to visit and settle into what would become our home for the next few days. I had some water and crackers. All of the nurses that cared for Carson and me were wonderful! I could not have imagined them being any sweeter or more helpful. We were so thankful for that.

4:00 pm The nurses brought Carson to our room and our families took turns coming to see him and hold him. He was our precious miracle, and we all loved him so much already!

Carson spent the nights in the nursery and the days in the room with us. During our time at the hospital, we rested and snuggled with our baby. Carson and I had to figure out breastfeeding and Keith was so sweet and supportive. The nurses and lactation consultants were outstanding.

Because of the positive results of the beta strip test, we were supposed to stay in the hospital for 48 hours. On Wednesday morning, they discovered that Carson’s left clavicle was broken, so we ended up staying until Wednesday evening. Thankfully, the broken bone did not seem to bother our sweet boy. We just had to be careful picking him up and changing his clothes. We were a little nervous to leave all of the support at the hospital. The last three days had gone by quickly, but we were looking forward to taking our baby boy home!

Before heading home, we stopped at Sonic to grab some dinner. We were greeted at home by Granny, Pops, and Aunt Misty. Aunt Misty even made a welcome home sign for the front door. Just after we got home, Kaye brought over some posters they made for us at church! It was good to be home!